It can be hard hooking up with someone offline. It doesn’t matter if you’re male or female finding your soul mate can be difficult. A lot of people hook up online these days but what if you just want to try and flirt or find someone locally? Where do you go? Most men visit and meet girls at clubs or bars but what if you don’t like to meet women there – then what?
One of the best ways to meet up with a woman is by doing activities. Ask yourself, what things are you interested in doing? Another idea is that sometimes friends might hook you up with another woman. Finding some type of common middle ground and establishing it in your relationship straight from the beginning is a good way to kick things off. Maybe you’re not sure what activities you might be interested in doing or maybe you don’t have any friends that can help you with finding a date. Don’t give up. The ideas below might help you with finding your soul mate.
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10. The Gym or a Fitness Class
Meeting a woman at a gym or a fitness class means you’ve instantly found something that you’re both interested in and that is keeping in shape and being healthy. How do you go about talking to her if you’re in a class? You can easily do small conversations and talk between lunges and squats. If you see she’s listening to music when working out then during breaks talk to her about the playlist she has and see what music she’s into.
9. Hang out at the Mall
I know you’re thinking that only teenagers or young people hang out at the mall but guess again. A lot of women love going to the mall. They like to window shop and try on clothes. Women of all ages enjoy the mall and it’s a popular hangout. If you haven’t been to the mall lately then go and hang out for awhile. I recommend visiting the mall during the afternoon or evenings. The coffee shop at the mall is also another great location to meet other women.
8. Flea Markets
Yes. Check your local flea market. I am sure that you weren’t expecting to see this one on the list but women love sales and discounts. The flea market has many awesome deals and women can save a lot of money so they hang out at flea markets looking for the best deal that they can find. One bonus for you is that they also usually shop with other women whenever they go to a flea market and they all look for deals together.
7. Work
Meeting women at work might be difficult but it can be done. Just be sure not to lose your job over it. Warning: Spoiler Alert with the movie Hitch! I don’t know if you have seen the movie Hitch but in the movie Hitch one of Alex’s clients is Albert and Albert wants to meet Allegra Cole who is a famous celebrity and he also works with her. The two of them end up falling in love. There are also other movies to where they meet at work and fall in love with each other. It can happen.
6. The beach or pool
During the summer time you can meet up with other women at the beach or either the pool. If you don’t live near either one you can see if there’s a local gym that might have a pool. Many women enjoy just relaxing and sitting near the pool and tanning. If they are tanning then you can also always see if they need help with putting their tanning lotion on their back.
5. Book stores and coffee shops
Here is another location that’s great to establish something in common right away. All you need to do is stay in your favorite area at the book store and wait to see who comes near your area. A lot of women also enjoy browsing the romantic fictional books. This might not be your favorite area but you can familiarize yourself with a couple of romance books and talk with them about it. Some book stores have coffee shops in them. You can offer to buy her a cup of coffee and talk about the books.
4. Dog parks
Hooking up with a woman at a dog park might sound easy but there are a few things to consider before you decide to flirt with a woman at a dog park. The woman might not pay any attention to you at first but rather only play with your dog. Instead of having the woman talk about your dog and looking only at it talk to her about the dog she has. This way she’s more likely to look you straight in the eyes then at your dog. Ask her questions about the dog she has. See if the two of you can walk your dog together.
3. Organized group activities
There are many ways to put together a group activity that’s organized. You can go fishing, rafting, hunting or camping together. Have friends bring alone the friends that they have. See if any of them have single women that they can bring. Don’t be afraid to admit that you’re trying to find a woman. You’ll be surprised at how many of your friends might love to help you with finding the right one.
2. Church
Meeting women at church tends to be easier compared to other places. A lot of women enjoy greeting and saying hello to other church members. It’s much more relaxing meeting a woman at the church. Plus you two will also have one thing in common and that’s your religion which can be a great conversation starter. The two of you can have bible studies together and meet for prayer.
1. Concerts and music events or festivals
All kinds of people go to concerts, music events or music festivals. It’s also a great way to find someone who is interested in your type of music. One of the best things about meeting a woman at a concert is that she’s more than likely having fun and not as stressed out as she would be elsewhere. They are more than likely willing to talk with a stranger at a concert than anywhere else.
Conclusion
Other places include friends weddings, volunteer groups, Wal-Mart and at a sports event. If you still find yourself not having any luck then maybe you should consider finding someone locally by looking at the dating ads in your newspaper.